It happened to Billie Eilish, a 20-year-old creative genius. She is the most concerned female singer at the moment, and she has won 7 Grammys at a young age. It can be said that she is infinitely beautiful.
And her ghost horse style since her debut is also very individual, such as her very individual hair color, and the fluorescent green top dyed hair has set off a trend.
Always wear oversized T-shirts and trousers to perform or even walk on the red carpet, any big name will become a similar style to her.
And this kind of her, after starting to transform and showing off her figure, received bad comments from some people, and even lost hundreds of thousands of fans because of it.
In June this year, she shot a blockbuster for the British edition of “VOGUE”. The sexy bra and stockings are far from her previous style. This is the first time she has shown her figure through the official media , which exploded and caused constant controversy.
In addition to the voices praising this group of beautiful and individual blockbusters, there are still unpleasant comments:
“Put on your clothes!”
“She Still too short and too fat.”
“With so little to wear, what to do next?”
“This industry has taught her badly.”
But this isn’t the first time Billie has been pointed at like this.
In October last year, a street photo of Billie also caused ridicule from netizens. In the photo, she was wearing suspenders and loose shorts, and she was dressed very at home. Netizens not only laughed, but also made many offensive emoticons.
“Billie is not a Bad Guy now, she is a Fat Guy.”
“In just ten months, Billie has the body of a 30-year-old alcoholic aunt.”
As for these things, this girl with a personality already has her own attitude. She once responded positively during the concert. At the beginning of the VCR, she appeared in loose clothes. As usual, she took off her coats one by one with the monologue.
She said: “Does my innate figure meet your expectations? If I dress for comfort, I don’t deserve to be called a woman. Although you have never seen the whole picture of my body, But you will still judge me and point fingers. Why bother?”
“We impose our own delusion on clothing size on others, we use our personal ideas to control other people’s ego, as if the value of my existence lies only in Your subjective consciousness or false guesses about me. “
In the end, he showed his attitude simply and neatly: “What does it have to do with me. ”
From then on, Bille began to change his style and began to boldly show his figure. Only then did he have the blockbuster “VOGUE” in front, the stunning appearance on the Met Gala, and a brand new Billie Eilish, or—she is like this.
It is not difficult to see that Billie has her own firm and confident attitude to face those unfriendly voices. Today we also want to talk to you——female How to be yourself?
There are always some new words appearing on the Internet every now and then to “remind” what women should be like.
Such as “elf ears”, “collarbone put coins”, ” “Manga waist”, “high skull top”, “touch belly button with backhand”, etc., I believe that these labels are familiar to female compatriots, and one will pop up every once in a while, followed by a lot of imitation.
Jennie Representatives of being called “high skull”
There is nothing wrong with showing one’s good figure, and it is not so bad when these words appear only as a modifier of a beautiful thing.
But when the large-scale “imitation check-in” appeared, these words have gradually begun to become labels, and become a hidden standard in social communication, causing some people’s anxiety. At this time, have people forgotten? , Are these standards really advisable?
Especially for female stars, the related words on the hot search before always have shoulders, chest, waist, hips and legs. gaze of appearance.
It is true that as a star, the management of body and appearance is a professional requirement, but the information conveyed from it has been widely disseminated and magnified into a potential hint-that is, women should be like this.
A large number of new rules have also been derived from these standards, such as fitness, weight loss meals, and body management equal to self-discipline It is re-associated with the former words such as “manga legs” and “vest line”.
The cycle goes on and on, and the involuted body makes women always passively accept new needs in the public eye. This chase seems to never end.
The philosopher Han Bingzhe mentioned in the book “The Salvation of Beauty”: “Today, the body is in a crisis. It is decomposed into digital computer data. Today, the entire digital age is shrouded in a belief , that life can be measured and quantified. The ‘quantified self’ movement is also obsessed with this belief.”
As women, have we also subtly accepted this belief in the eyes of others? Quantification in terms of rules, how about labeling one’s appearance with precise numbers one by one?
I believe that many girls have questioned their appearance, feel that they are not good-looking, and have tried a lot on appearance.
The environment around us is always defining what beauty is for us, and constantly adding rules, but it never tells us what the beauty we have been chasing is.
We don’t live under the camera, don’t let the exquisite packaging behind the screen become the shackles of our lives.
A life without beautification, retouching, and filters is the real life we live. It may not be perfect, but every moment is fresh.
Blogger Georgie Clarke took a series of comparison photos. Behind those “perfect photos” may actually be the same belly, orange peel, and flat buttocks.
The body is only a container for our spirit, not a shackle.
Plump figures don’t need to stuff themselves into the frigid aesthetic frame, and naturally slender girls don’t have to force themselves to be bulging and backward, just enjoy the way we are born.
More and more brands are also advocating multiple aesthetics, like Savage XAt the Fenty by Rihanna lingerie show, not only old and new supermodels helped out, but also models of various shapes showed up together. They were all equally confident and attractive.
The moment we understand our true self and accept imperfection, we will be closer to beauty.
Don’t bow to others’ aesthetics, be brave to be yourself, and firmly believe in yourself, which is actually the first step in our pursuit of beauty.
There was a popular video some time ago, a well-known model on TikTok, thewizardliz, was ridiculed for not being thin enough during the shoot, and the photographer advised her not to eat before the shoot. And she directly replied that she was already thin enough, even if she wasn’t thin enough, he was not qualified to teach her how to treat her body.
As Billie Eilish said——
“Some people sneer at what I wear, others treasure it, some use it to humiliate others, and some people Humiliate me with this, but I know you’re looking at me, I feel your gaze, your denial, your long sigh, and if I’m stuck in it, I can’t move.”
Women want Learn to SAY NO to those imposed excessive aesthetic requirements.
When the aesthetic cycle uses local extreme standards to frame women, perhaps the ability to create a confident overall aesthetic is also the most powerful counterattack weapon for women.
Look at yourself,
Believe that you are beautiful,
In fact, beauty is effortless.
